there are plenty of things to get used to in life.
environment, friends, family, everything.
even hair styles.

accompanied junhui to cut her hair and for me to trim my fringe today, and she wasnt quite used to her hair being so short. felt quite guilty cuz she seemed as though she dint really liked the hairstyle. :/
then we were just talking about getting used to our hairstyles.
remember me during rg days and hcjc days when i dint have a fringe at all? cant imagine now huh.. then last year one fine day when i was feeling a little crazy, i decided to go cut a fringe at the hair salon near my place. the only place where i trust my hair to be touched by the way. and i wanted a fringe that went with my character. so i roughly told the lady what i wanted.
apparently there was miscommunication and i turned out with a fringe that looked like china dolls. boy did i fly into a temper! imagine the thick straight fringe she gave me. i nearly fainted on the spot. then she tried to rescue the situation by layering it and trying to make it thinner. it turned out slightly better, but still, not much.
i was in such a bad temper for the next 2 days.
and then as time passed, i grew used to the hairstyle. and then, i grew to like it. and then, i grew to love it.
now i wonder, what was i thinking when i went through 6 years of education without a fringe?!?
i must have looked quite like a freak then. gulps.

anyways. same goes for everything else.
i grew used to the smu environment.
i grew used to not having sam around after the break up last year, and the post break up period was made so much better with the care and concern given by my close friends from sec and jc, and my dearest ltb group as well. still remember the sunflower they gave me to cheer me up. i wonder who found out that i love sunflowers. hahaha.
i grew used to my smu class, and grew to love them even more.
i grew used to being alone sometimes, and search for the peace and serenity i was looking for as an individual.
then, i met you.
then i grew used to not contacting you for a few days.
for that seemed normal to you.

but i do realise for a fact that, thankfully im not the only girl who wants to have constant contact every day with the guy.
every girl seeks stability and wants to be contacted and talked to everyday.
in the past i'd feel weird if you dint contact me for one day. i thought, you dint think of me that day.
all girls think that way. which girl doesnt want attention?
but of course, we cant be expecting so much from the guy as well. understand his style and give and take.
and i guess, things will always turn out for the better.
afterall, if the guy chooses to ignore the girl, the girl has the right to say that he has not contacted her for XX days.
wahahas.
at least i do that. grin.

so yea, we get used to a whole lot of different things.
environment, friends, family, clothes, style, relationships.
trains your patience and your character. it does well to it, really.




wendy my daughter thinks that its a bad thing growing taller. from 175.5 to 178cm.
hahahaha. so amusing.
grin.